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INSPIRATION - Being a parent is a challenge in life. Therefore, no one is born ready to be parents. You have to experience a variety of experiments and practice to become a good parent.
Continuing from the previous five errors reviews, here are four more mistakes parents make children become naughty.
Avoid these mistakes and help him grow into a good person, polite, and concerned with the people around him.
1. You allow the child to be rude
If the child is allowed to behave politely, referring to the older people carelessly or ask for something without the word "please", then the child's unruly behavior entirely your fault.
"When you let the child talk to you in a way that should not be done by couples, friends, colleagues, or strangers to you, it is a sign of a bad child," said Elaine Rose Glickman, Your Kid's a Brat and It's All Your Fault.
2. You are not trying to fix it since the child is still small
Although, according to you, the child is still too young to understand, but good behavior must be nurtured and taught since childhood.
"You have to consider this in all the things you do. If you want the child to grow into polite person, then the child should start learning to say 'please' to you, "said Glickman
3. You let the child misbehaves in public areas
You might be trying to teach children that even though he was rolling on the floor, his desire not to be obeyed.
However, remember that the public area is not your own. If the child misbehaves in public areas, take the child out of the building and let that desire should not interfere with the rights of others.
"The feeling of the child, his desire to express himself, the anger, and your desire to eat at a restaurant; none of those things that allow you and the children interfere with the other guests to eat in peace, "said Glickman.
4. You are afraid to hurt children
Distinguish be disciplined with cruel to children. Answering "no" to a child will not undermine confidence or your relationship with him.
"Being disciplined will prepare them to become a person who appreciates you and others," said Glickman.
He went on, the child will not remember a single moment when you scold the child for screaming at the supermarket, which will he remember is that parents who love, but discipline and provide limits for her to be a better person.
